Can be many type of love relationship ie: siblings' love, couple's love, family's love and etc. But often when we see or hear bout love, we well most of us, assumed it has to be couple's love. Last month, somewhere in the middle of October (i think) there was a talk about handling healthy relationship held at Inti Sport Hall. As usual, a lost lamb like me did not know there is such event. Siew Ying asked me whether i would like to accompany to her or not. With plenty of time to kill, happily i agreed.
There were two person, a couple giving THE talk. Haha so sorry, at the moment i cant recalled their names. I think itz Mr Robert and Lynsee (his wife).Mostly the talk was a recollection of their dating experiences but one of the topic captures my attention. It is about 5 languages of love. Cool huh? Okay, the talk happened ages ago so i cant really remember exactly which are the 5's but here goes.. touches, gifts and sweet talks, quality time, serving and lastly... i forgot! =.='' sorry~
Anyway..haha these are the 4/5 languages used to express your love to your another half. At times, u feel like grabbing your partner's hand or giving a bear hug so that you feel secure in a sense that you are being in love. Sometimes, you feel the need to spend time together, have fun and spend some quality time together. Or sometimes, just wanna help out whenever your partner in stress mode, just want to be useful to him/her. And lastly, just buy gifts to show your affection.
Some, feel love when receive sweet talks and gifts.
Some, just happy able to serve the partner and feel love when able to help out or being helped out.
Some, kisses and hugs are the best way to show affections.
Some, spending time together is the ultimate lovey-dovey moments.
Some, haha i forget the 5th love language.. figure out urself. What you want in a relationship?
So which language among the 4 love languages that you are more dominant at?
Haha personally i love ALL!!! Haha But if i have to choose, i would go for quality time . Reason? When your partner tells you his problem or his daily doings (though sometimes it kinda mundane and boring..) but the fact that he is making you part of his life,aint that good enough to show you that he love u? That is a gift itself and the part he shares his life with you and not anyone surely touches your heart. Awww.. i feel so profesional about love already though i never involve in this kinda relationship. Haha just joking!
Haha i know the post is kinda lame and not interesting.. i always have problems expressing it out due to restricted vocabulary that i have. So yea..here is it anyway. Hope it manages to help anyone out there, to reflect what is your language of love... (chewa) haha
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Monday, November 2, 2009
My freedom!
Chemistry's torture is over!!! *well for atleast 2 months* which marks the end of semester 1. Got 2 months break..weehee! *though in between got assignments and studying to do* BUT what the heck! Appreciate this 2months break, relax a little, take a break from the stressful life and just have fun! (and go broke) Cant stop smilling =)
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